A Story of an Important Moment in My Life


Welcome to another episode of Continuous Improvement. I’m your host, Victor, and today we’re going to delve into the deep question of life’s purpose. It’s a topic that has intrigued philosophers and ordinary people alike for centuries. And while I may not have all the answers, I firmly believe that caring about the purpose of life is a crucial step in our personal growth and development.

Growing up, I was always eager to understand the meaning of life. My parents, like many others, shared life lessons through stories that left a lasting impact on me. However, it wasn’t until I became an adult that these lessons truly started to make sense.

You see, when it comes to life’s purpose, people generally fall into three categories: those who believe life has inherent meaning, those who believe it has no meaning at all, and those who simply don’t care. While the last group is common, today I want to encourage you to care, to explore, and to discover your own meaning.

Let me share a personal story that led me to find my purpose in life. During high school, I had ambitions that went beyond the mundane. I wanted to be the student union president, even though it meant taking on more challenges and risking my academic future.

My physics teacher warned me about the potential consequences, stating that statistically, student union presidents often struggle to balance their responsibilities and academic studies. But I was determined to make a difference and follow my ideals.

Around the same time, I had a girlfriend who had more conventional aspirations. While I aimed for leadership and personal growth, she focused on a stable career path. Our aspirations clashed, but this contrast allowed me to reflect on what truly mattered to me.

During university orientations, I had the privilege of speaking to a philosophy professor whose discussions on the meaning of life captivated my interest. Studying Chinese philosophy, particularly the emphasis on empathy, justice, and altruism, further influenced my decision-making process.

With these humanitarian concepts in mind, I ran for the position of student union president. Despite the challenges and constraints I faced, I was elected. And let me tell you, it was one of the most memorable periods of my life.

Interestingly, while serving as the president, I managed to score decent grades in my public exams. This experience taught me valuable life lessons that far outweighed any academic accomplishments. It opened my eyes to the key components that give my life meaning.

Firstly, the opportunity to be a leader enriched my youth. The unique learning experience itself was valuable, without needing any further justification.

Secondly, the ups and downs I experienced with my partner during this time gave me a sense of purpose and growth.

Lastly, my service in the student union allowed me to contribute to my community and society. Giving up my time mattered because I cared for my peers, and I formed lasting friendships with fellow student leaders.

Ultimately, my understanding of life’s purpose revolves around learning, relationships, and contribution. These elements became clear to me because I deeply cared about seeking an answer to this question.

Now, while your path might be different, the first step is recognizing the importance of caring. Understanding that life’s purpose is not just a philosophical puzzle, but an opportunity for personal growth and fulfillment.

That’s all for today’s episode of Continuous Improvement. I hope this discussion has inspired you to explore your own meaning and purpose in life. Remember, caring is the first step towards a more meaningful existence. Join me next time as we continue our journey of personal growth and self-improvement. Until then, take care and keep seeking a purposeful life.