On Feeling Uncomfortable Around Others


Welcome to “Continuous Improvement,” the podcast where we explore personal growth and professional development strategies to help us become the best versions of ourselves. I’m your host, Victor, and today we’re going to dive into a topic that many of us can relate to: overcoming stage fright and improving our public speaking skills.

Have you ever found yourself trembling at the thought of speaking in front of a crowd? I know I have. In fact, I remember a time when I had to give a speech at a conference and my fear of speaking to a room full of strangers was almost overwhelming.

As I took the stage, my heart raced and my mind went blank. It was as if my fight-or-flight response had kicked in, and I was desperately searching for the right words to say. In that moment, I realized that I had been too focused on myself, rather than on engaging with the audience.

In hindsight, I realized that I could have alleviated my initial tension by engaging the audience, making eye contact, and asking questions. By shifting my focus from my own insecurities to adding value to their lives, I could have fostered a better connection and made a lasting impression.

It’s important to recognize that building relationships and social engagement play a significant role in our overall well-being. Numerous studies have shown that positive relationships not only impact our happiness but also help us manage stress. Cultivating these relationships can act as an antidote to feelings of depression and enhance our long-term sense of well-being.

As I transitioned from being a software engineer to a manager, I realized the importance of trusting and feeling at ease around others. I had to shift from a solely technical focus to a people-oriented approach. It’s not just about leveraging others’ skills, but also about recognizing and valuing their interpersonal abilities.

Learning to trust and feel comfortable around others is a journey driven by love and respect. It’s a continuous process of personal growth that I am committed to continuing.

And that wraps up today’s episode of “Continuous Improvement.” Remember, overcoming stage fright and improving our public speaking skills is a journey that requires self-awareness, practice, and a shift in focus towards the audience’s needs.

Thank you for joining me, and I hope you found our discussion insightful. If you have any questions or topics you’d like me to cover in future episodes, feel free to reach out.

Until next time, keep striving for continuous improvement in all areas of your life. Take care, and see you soon!