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2021

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Stay Curious

Curiosity awakens our minds. Being inquisitive, I always seek to learn and understand more. The world is enormous and constantly evolving. To keep up with these changes, staying curious is essential; otherwise, I risk becoming obsolete.

It's crucial to cultivate an interest in the realm of possibilities rather than merely believing what I see in the news. Often, my intuition is incorrect, and I need to be aware of that.

A closed attitude can lead to unhappiness. We should examine our behavior objectively, much like a scientist observing a petri dish from a distance. This mindset allows us to treat life as a laboratory—a place where we feel safe to experiment and believe that anything is possible.

Following curiosity enriches my love for creativity and innovation. New experiences invigorate me, and I am eager to explore fresh ideas. As a leader, my strengths lie in leading through vision and concepts. I am determined yet open to considering better solutions.

I believe in being brave and daring but not reckless. Taking risks and making mistakes are part of the process. Over time, this approach refines our decision-making skills and helps us learn from our errors.

Curiosity not only alters our self-perception but also influences how others view us. It encourages an open-minded, innovative, and adventurous spirit. It fosters a team and family atmosphere where everyone feels empowered to contribute.

Being curious has a broader social benefit—it opens us up to various viewpoints and reduces conflict. Experimentation is essential. Without it, we'll never understand what truly works.

Innovation and failure are closely related. Curiosity does come at a cost, but the benefits in personal and professional growth make it worthwhile.

Barriers to staying curious can range from excessive insecurity to a bloated ego. Both of these hinder our growth and can be mitigated by self-awareness and an open mindset.

Lifelong curiosity is essential. One way to foster this is by continuously applying what we've learned to real-world scenarios. Negative experiences are powerful teachers but should be used sparingly.

In conclusion, to adapt and grow, we need to think like both a computer and a learning organism—actively engaging with our environment and evolving based on feedback and experimentation. Teaching is one of the most effective ways to learn. It requires not only subject matter expertise but also the skill to convey it effectively to others. The more I learn, the more I realize how much I don't know, fueling my curiosity even further.

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保持好奇

好奇能喚醒我們的思考。作為一個好奇的人，我總是努力學習和理解更多。世界是如此巨大且不斷變化，我們要跟上這些變化，就必須保持好奇，否則我們就有可能被淘汰。

提升對可能性範疇的興趣至關重要，而不僅僅是相信新聞中看到的內容。往往，我的直覺是錯誤的，我需要清楚這一點。

封閉的態度可能導致不快樂。我們應該像科學家從一定距離觀察培養皿一樣，客觀地審視自己的行為。這種思維方式讓我們把生活視為一間實驗室 —— 一個我們覺得可以進行實驗、相信一切皆有可能的地方。

我的好奇心使我對創新和創意更加熱愛。新的體驗使我充滿活力，我熱衷於探索新的想法。作為一個領導者，我優秀之處在於通過願景和概念引導團隊。我既有決心，也願意尋找更佳的解決方案。

我相信我們應該要勇敢且大膽，但不能魯莽。冒險和犯錯是過程的一部分。隨著時間的推移，這種方法能磨煉我們的決策能力並幫助我們從錯誤中學習。

好奇心不僅改變我們自身的認知，也影響他人對我們的看法。它鼓勵我們有開放，創新和冒險的精神。這種精神也能夠培養出一種團隊和家庭的氣氛，讓每個人都感覺有能力做出貢獻。

保持好奇還有更廣泛的社會效益——我們更能接受不同的觀點，從而減少衝突。實驗是必不可少的。如果沒有實驗，我們就無法理解真正有效的方法。

創新和失敗密切相關。好奇心確實需要付出代價，但個人和專業成長中所帶來的收益使之變得物有所值。

阻礙保持好奇的障礙可能包括過度的不安全感和自大的自我。兩者都會阻礙我們的成長，但可以通過自我覺察和開放的態度來緩解。

終身的好奇心是必需的。培養這種好奇心的一種方式是不斷將我們學到的知識應用到現實生活中。壞的經驗可以成為強大的老師，但應該少用。

結論是，要適應和成長，我們需要如同電腦和學習生物一樣思考，主動與環境互動，並根據反饋和實驗進化。教學是學習的有效方法之一。這需要不僅是主題專業知識，而且還需要有效地將其傳達給他人的技巧。我學到的越多，我就越知道我所不知道的東西，這使我的好奇心更加旺盛。

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Becoming a Better Leader

Becoming a better leader is critical for success. Leadership isn't just about money, strategy, or technology; teamwork remains the ultimate competitive advantage. With effective leadership, we can align our organization and outperform any industry, market, or competitor.

We all know this, but achieving it can seem daunting. Team dysfunction is common because teams are composed of fallible human beings. As leaders, it's our job to cultivate teamwork, making our team members feel valued, respected, and important. Leadership development includes rolling up our sleeves and getting our hands dirty. We need to:

  • Face challenges courageously
  • Foster an innovative spirit
  • Understand how our values contribute to society
  • Strive for self-sufficiency

From an evolutionary standpoint, we all want to feel like a vital part of the group.

In leadership, recognizing the bigger picture and structuring solutions effectively are key. We excel when leading through vision and ideas. We're always open to better solutions and need time to weigh alternatives. New experiences energize us, and we love exploring fresh ideas. By seeking out various leaders for coaching and comparing different leadership styles, we can adapt lessons from diverse fields.

Instead of thinking of ourselves as bosses, we should aspire to be leaders. The differences are stark:

  • Boss: Motivates through authority, instills fear, uses "I," takes credit, and commands.
  • Leader: Trains others, relies on goodwill, uses "we," shares credit, and requests.

Great leadership enriches lives and helps us achieve collective goals. It involves earning credibility through transparency, inclusiveness, and a willingness to ask for help. A good leader not only thrives within a team but also positively impacts the broader community. By adapting our leadership style to different individuals and challenges, we can effectively harness internal and external resources.

Teams require different skills at different times to address diverse problems. Therefore, we must continually develop our leadership capabilities. Society urgently needs bolder and more devoted leaders, not managers who instill fear.

Here are specific techniques to further our leadership goals:

  • Prioritize fairness over reciprocity
  • Acknowledge both achievements and failures
  • Empathize with those in need
  • Be open to change
  • Commit to lifelong learning and development

As team leaders, it’s crucial to select individuals with complementary skills and perspectives. To influence those outside our immediate team, we must rely on persuasion rather than authority. Building a strong external reputation will increase our chances for future opportunities.

A common obstacle is prioritizing personal interests over the team's. Overcoming this means thinking long-term and putting the team's needs above our own. Another barrier is the fear of public speaking, which we can address by practicing and focusing on the positive impact we can make.

The key performance indicators are the best metrics to track our progress. Understanding what motivates team members, either intrinsically or extrinsically, is vital. We should regularly reflect on our actions, set clear goals for our team, and offer consistent feedback. It's also important to manage upward by cultivating a genuine relationship with our superiors.

To be exceptional leaders, we must deepen our self-awareness, recognizing both our strengths and weaknesses, and understand how to collaborate effectively with others.

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成為一個更好的領導者

變得更好的領導者對成功來說是至關重要的。領導力不只是關於金錢、策略或技術；團隊合作仍是至高無上的競爭優勢。有了有效的領導力，我們可以組織我們的組織並超越任何產業、市場或競爭對手。

我們都知道這點，但實現它似乎令人生畏。團隊功能失調是常見的，因為團隊是由有缺點的人類組成的。作為領導者，我們的工作就是培養團隊合作，讓我們的團隊成員感到有價值、受到尊重和重要。領導力的發展包括卷起袖子，親自下手。我們需要：

  • 勇敢面對挑戰
  • 培養創新精神
  • 了解我們的價值觀如何促進社會進步
  • 追求自給自足

從進化的角度來看，我們都希望感覺自己是群體中不可或缺的一部分。

在領導層面上，認識到更大的圖像並有效地結構解決方案是關鍵。當我們透過願景與理念引領時，我們表現優異。我們始終對更好的解決方案持開放態度，需要時間來衡量各種替代方案。新的經驗使我們充滿活力，我們熱愛探索新鮮的想法。通過尋求不同的領導者進行指導並比較不同的領導風格，我們可以從多元的領域中學習經驗。

我們應該把自己視為領導者，而不是老闆。兩者的區別很大：

  • 老闆：通過權威激勵，創造恐懼，使用“我”，搶功，和命令。
  • 領導者：訓練他人，依賴善意，使用“我們”，分享成就，和提出請求。

偉大的領導力會豐富生活並幫助我們實現集體目標。這牽涉到通過透明度、包容性和樂於尋求幫助而贏得公信力。一個好的領導者不僅能在團隊內茁壯成長，還能對更廣大的社區產生積極的影響。通過將我們的領導風格適應於不同的個體和挑戰，我們可以有效地利用內外部資源。

團隊在不同的時候需要不同的技能來解決多樣化的問題。因此，我們必須不斷地發展我們的領導能力。社會迫切需要更加果敢和更加投入的領導者，而不是創造恐懼的經理人。

以下是一些具體的技巧，以進一步實現我們的領導目標：

  • 優先考慮公平而非回報
  • 承認成就和失敗
  • 對需要幫助的人表示同情
  • 採取開放的態度接受變化
  • 承諾進行終身學習與發展

作為團隊領導者，挑選具有互補技能和觀點的個人至關重要。要影響我們的直接團隊以外的人，我們必須依賴說服而非權威。打造強大的外部聲譽會提高我們未來獲得機會的機會。

一個常見的障礙是將個人興趣置於團隊的利益之上。克服這種狀況意味著要長遠地思考，並將團隊的需要置於我們自身利益之上。另一個障礙是公開演講的恐懼，我們可以通過操練並專注於我們可以產生的積極影響來解決這個問題。

主要績效指標是追蹤我們進步的最佳指標。了解激勵團隊成員的因素，無論是內在的還是外在的，都是至關重要的。我們應該定期反思我們的行為，為我們的團隊設定明確的目標，並提供一致的反饋。同時，積極向上管理，與我們的上級建立真誠的關係也很重要。

要成為卓越的領導者，我們必須加深我們的自我意識，認識到我們的優點和弱點，並了解如何有效地與他人合作。

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My Goal to Be Healthier

I firmly believe that striving for a healthier lifestyle is crucial for our professional and personal relationships, as well as for our overall well-being in this unpredictable world.

Working hard to uphold our values is not about seeking external validation; rather, we strive for a healthier life because our circumstances seem to demand it.

Engaging in regular exercise not only improves our physical health but also enhances our cognitive function. Increased blood flow in the brain, particularly in the dentate gyrus of the hippocampus, enhances our memory.

To achieve this, we should set small, manageable goals, such as taking 10,000 steps per day, exercising three days a week, and sleeping for seven hours each night. In addition to exercise, mindfulness, nutritious eating, and adequate sleep contribute to our overall health.

Chemical messengers like serotonin, dopamine, and noradrenaline regulate bodily functions and impact our cognitive behavior. Exercise has been proven to improve mood and alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety. In fact, research suggests that aerobic exercise can be as effective as antidepressants in treating depression.

Moreover, a daily 20-minute walk can reduce the risk of stroke by over 57%. Exercise not only serves as a short-term stress relief but also provides long-term protection against the harmful effects of stress. Physical activities such as running, walking, or swimming are excellent ways to flush the stress hormone cortisol from our system.

Prioritizing personal health can also inspire meaningful, long-term change in our lives. If we believe that certain actions will improve our health, we should take the initiative to adopt them. Improved health can lead to increased productivity at work, better study habits, and a more positive social life.

Being around healthy individuals encourages us to adopt better habits ourselves. True friendships should promote mutual well-being, rather than fostering self-pity or toxic behavior.

Embracing a healthier lifestyle can have a positive ripple effect on those around us. It allows us to be more effective in our roles without compromising our health. Additionally, combating social isolation is vital; the risks associated with loneliness can be as severe as those linked to smoking.

To implement these changes, planning is key. For instance, I schedule a one-hour jog at 6 a.m. and an hour of swimming at 7 p.m. each day. Activities like cycling, kayaking, or hiking can replace screen time during weekends.

Maintaining a balanced diet is another cornerstone of a healthier lifestyle. Avoid fast food and opt for meals rich in fish and vegetables. Eating at consistent times and limiting sugar intake are also essential. A well-stocked kitchen with healthy options can make nutritious eating easier and more convenient.

Obstacles such as laziness or busy schedules can deter us from our health goals. To counteract this, we can minimize the effort needed to begin an exercise routine by, for example, keeping a gym bag at work or choosing exercise venues close to home.

Another challenge is the allure of fast food, particularly when it’s conveniently available. To resist this temptation, it helps to prepare healthy meals at home. Limiting dining out to once a week is a balanced approach.

Monitoring progress is possible through smartphone apps that track daily steps, aiming for an average of 10,000 steps a day. I plan to achieve this goal by my 31st birthday to keep myself motivated. Additionally, keeping track of physical metrics like waist size and weight can provide an objective measure of success.

Listening to podcasts during exercise or allowing occasional indulgences can make the journey more enjoyable. Advanced wearables can further assist in tracking health metrics like heart rate and blood pressure.

Staying committed and tracking metrics through apps like Google Health helps in gauging our progress without making the process cumbersome. After all, the journey to a healthier life is a marathon, not a sprint.

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我的目標是更健康

我堅信，追求更健康的生活方式對我們的專業和個人關係以及我們在這個變幻莫測的世界中的整體健康至關重要。

努力維護我們的價值並不是尋求外界的認可；相反，我們追求更健康的生活是因為我們的環境似乎需要這樣。

定期進行運動不僅可以改善我們的身體健康，還可以提高我們的認知功能。大腦中，尤其是海馬迴牙狀迴中的血液流動增加，可以增強我們的記憶力。

為了實現這一點，我們應設定小而易管理的目標，例如每天走10,000步，每周運動三天，每晚睡七個小時。除了運動，正念、營養飲食和充足的睡眠也有助於我們的整體健康。

褪黑素、多巴胺和去甲腎上腺素等化學信使調節身體功能，並影響我們的認知行為。運動已被證明可以改善情緒，緩解抑鬱和焦慮症狀。事實上，研究表明，有氧運動對於治療抑鬱症可能與抗抑鬱藥一樣有效。

此外，每天走20分鐘的路程可以將中風的風險降低57%以上。運動不僅是短期壓力的緩解方法，還可提供長期抵禦壓力的有害影響的保護。例如跑步、步行或游泳等物理活動是把壓力荷爾蒙皮質醇從我們的體系中排出的絕佳方式。

將個人健康作為優先考慮也可以在我們的生活中激發有意義的長期改變。如果我們認為某些行為將改善我們的健康，我們應採取主動採取這些行為。改善健康可以導致工作效率提高，學習習慣好轉，以及社交生活更積極。

身處於健康人群中會鼓勵我們自己採取更好的習慣。真正的友誼應該促進相互的健康，而不是滋生自憐或者有毒的行為。

擁抱更健康的生活方式可以對我們周圍的人產生正面的漣漪效應。它使我們能夠更有效地擔當我們的角色，而不會損害我們的健康。此外，對抗社交隔離也十分重要。由孤獨引起的風險可能與吸煙相關的風險一樣嚴重。

要想實施這些改變，規劃至關重要。例如，我每天早上六點鐘安排一個小時的慢跑，下午七點鐘安排一個小時的游泳。周末可以進行如騎自行車、獨木舟或登山等活動來替代看屏幕的時間。

保持均衡飲食是更健康生活方式的另一個基石。避免快餐，選擇富含魚和蔬菜的餐點。按照固定的時間吃飯並限制糖的攝入量也非常重要。倉庫存有健康選擇的食品可以使營養飲食更加方便。

懶惰或繁忙的日程可能會阻礙我們實現健康目標。為了對抗這種情況，我們可以通過在工作地點保留運動包或選擇靠近家的運動場所，來減少開始進行運動的努力。

另一個挑戰是快餐的誘惑，尤其是當它方便可得時。抵制這種誘惑的一個方法是在家自己準備健康餐點。每週只在外面用一餐是一種均衡的方式。

可能通過使用智能手機應用來追蹤每天的步數以監測進展，平均每天步數目標為10,000步。我計劃在31歲生日前達到這個目標以保持自我激勵。此外，跟蹤身體指數如腰圍和體重，可以提供成功的客觀衡量標準。

在運動中聽有聲讀物或允許偶爾的放縱可以讓旅途更加愉快。先進的穿戴設備還可以進一步協助跟蹤健康指標，如心率和血壓。

只要我們使用像Google Health這樣的應用來跟蹤數據並堅持不懈，就能在不讓過程變得累贅的情況下評估我們的進程。畢竟，走向更健康的生活是一場馬拉松，而非短跑。

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Healthy Body, Healthy Mind

According to dualism theory, I often view the body and mind as two distinct entities, believing that mental and physical entities are separate. However, reading and exercise are not mutually exclusive. Fitness can help develop both your body and mind as a unified whole. Our health affects our mental state, and our thoughts, in turn, influence our physical health. Everything from our respiration and muscles to our immune system and heart rate is continually impacted by our thoughts, which also shape our thinking. Our body and mind comprise a complex interconnected system; it's difficult to isolate one element from the others. Taking care of our body allows us to nurture our mind. My aim is to improve fitness by integrating physical and mental well-being.

These days, I spend most of my time thinking and working in front of a computer, which has led to health issues and feelings of unhappiness. Physical training could help me think more clearly. Exercise releases natural hormones that help regulate my mood.

I want to be healthy because it is a prerequisite for achieving other life goals. Without good health, it would be challenging to concentrate and attain greater outcomes. I need to make it a habit to exercise more frequently after work, either by running or swimming for an hour. This regular exercise regimen can help regulate our emotions and clear our minds, making better decision-making possible. Exercise is worth the time investment, as it boosts our productivity and enhances brain function. Also, since we are what we eat, maintaining a nutritious diet rich in essential nutrients will help us sustain high energy levels without getting fatigued.

As I age, my metabolism slows down, and my body shape begins to change, particularly around the abdomen. Maintaining a healthy body size becomes increasingly important. I also want to be mentally resilient to handle various life challenges and maintain positive relationships with others.

To be a leader, one must be mentally healthy. Defining leadership isn't always straightforward, as the term encompasses a range of qualities such as competence, proactivity, and being a role model. A lack of leadership, especially in crises like the unfortunate situation in Hong Kong, can be disastrous. Those who are currently in government leadership positions are unfit, while those who are competent are not stepping up. Those in power should be serving the public, not using their positions for personal gain. If they continue to reject public opinion, they should resign.

When I am in good mental health, I find myself more engaged and curious. In stressful situations, we often close off our minds, limit our options, and avoid learning new things. However, maintaining an open mind and remaining curious can lead to unexpected new ideas and perspectives. The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know, which only prompts further discovery.

With good mental health, I also maintain a more positive outlook on life. We don't react to the world; we react based on our mental map of the world. Therefore, our mindset, not the actual circumstances, often determines our actions and how we interpret those actions. Negativity is filtered out, enabling me to maintain a positive perspective, even when faced with daily challenges.

A healthy body and mind will enable me to contribute to the community effectively. While the Asian educational system may focus on hard skills like programming or design, soft skills become increasingly important as we face different people and challenges in life. Effective interpersonal skills can facilitate better community service.

Exercise has the potential to lead us toward self-actualization. Peak performance is often achieved not when I'm bored or anxious, but rather when I'm slightly over-challenged. That's when my brain releases just enough adrenaline to help me perform at my best. Enjoyment also leads to the release of dopamine in the brain, making peak performance almost impossible without pleasure. Managing stress levels becomes crucial as prolonged high levels of cortisol can lead to depression and burnout. Physical activities help regulate hormone release, thereby maintaining mental well-being. Research indicates that both depression and anxiety can be mitigated through physical movement and exercise. A better-regulated mind can lead to improved reasoning, problem-solving, and abstract thinking, allowing me to reach my full potential.

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健康的身體，健康的心靈

根據二元論理論，我經常將身體和心靈視為兩個不同的實體，並認為精神和物質實體是分開的。然而，讀書和運動並不互相排斥。健身可以幫助你將身心統一地發展。我們的健康影響我們的心理狀態，反過來，我們的思想又會影響我們的身體健康。從我們的呼吸和肌肉到我們的免疫系統和心率，都會不斷地受到我們的思想的影響，我們的思想也會形塑我們的思考方式。我們的身體和心靈組成了一個複雜的互聯系統；將其中一個元素與其他元素隔離開來很難。照顧我們的身體可以讓我們滋養我們的心靈。我的目標是通過整合身體和精神健康來提高健身水平。

現在，我大部分的時間都在用電腦思考和工作，這導致了健康問題和不快樂的感覺。體能訓練可以幫助我思考得更清楚。運動釋放出調節我心情的自然荷爾蒙。

我想要健康，因為這是實現其他生活目標的前提。如果沒有好的健康，我會很難集中精力並達到更好的效果。我需要養成習慣，在工作後更頻繁地運動，比如跑步或者游泳一個小時。這種定期運動的習慣可以幫助我們調節情緒，清除我們的心智，使得更好的決策成為可能。運動是值得我們投入時間的，因為它可以提高我們的工作效率並增強腦功能。此外，由於我們吃什麼就會變成什麼，所以保持一個富含必需營養素的營養均衡的飲食將有助於我們保持高能量水平而不會感到疲勞。

隨著我年龄的增长，我的新陳代謝變慢，我的身體形狀開始變化，特別是在腹部。保持健康的身體尺寸變得越來越重要。我也希望心理上有抵抗力，能夠應對各種生活挑戰並與他人保持積極的關係。

要成為領導者，必須有健康的心理。定義領導力並不總是直接了當的，因為該詞涵蓋了一系列的品質，如能力颖越，主動積極，並作為一個榜樣。缺乏領導力，特別是在像香港這樣不幸的危機情況下，可能是災難性的。那些目前擔任政府領導位置的人並不適任，而那些有能力的人卻沒有挺身而出。掌握權力的人應該為公眾服務，而不是利用他們的地位來謀求個人利益。如果他們繼續拒絕公眾的意見，他們應該辭職。

當我心理健康時，我會發現自己更加投入和好奇。在有壓力的情況下，我們通常會封閉我們的內心，限制我們的選擇，避免學習新的東西。然而，保持開放的心態，保持好奇心，可能會帶來意想不到的新的觀點和想法。我學的越多，我就越實現自己所知甚少，這只會促使我進一步探索。

有了良好的心理健康，我也會對生活保持更積極的態度。我們不是針對世界有所反應，而是根据我们心智对世界的映射来反應。因此，常常是我們的心態，而不是實際的條件，決定了我們的行動和我們如何解釋這些行動。擺脫負面情緒，即使面對日常生活中的挑戰，我也能保持積極的觀點。

有健康的身體和心靈，我可以更有效地為社區做出貢獻。儘管亞洲的教育系統可能專注於硬技能，如編程或設計，但隨著我們在生活中面對不同的人和挑戰，軟技能的重要性隨著不斷增加。有效的人際技巧可以促進更好的社區服務。

運動有可能引領我們走向自我實現。我經常達到最佳表現的時候並不是我感到無聊或焦慮，而是當我稍微有點挑戰的時候。那是我大腦分泌足夠的腎上腺素來幫助我表現最好的時候。享受也會導致大腦釋放多巴胺，使得在沒有愉悅的情況下幾乎不能達到最佳表現。管理壓力水平變得非常重要，因為長期的高水平皮質醇可以導致抑郁症和燒脑。肉體活動有助於調節荷爾蒙的釋放，從而維持心理健康。研究指出，通過肉體運動和運動可以緩解憂郁症和焦慮症。更好的調節自己的心理可以導致更好的推理，解決問題，和抽象思考，讓我儘可能地發揮出自己的潛力。

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A Future to Avoid

A life without significance paints a vivid image of an unfavorable future. People work diligently to achieve their goals in pursuit of their ideals. The purpose of science is to uncover truth, while art aims to display beauty. Acts of kindness and love define morality, and the value of political actions lies in achieving social fairness. Human desires for food, love, honor, and power all culminate in self-actualization. According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, these values propel us toward the highest level of self-actualization in our lives.

My values shape my daily actions. I strive to find value in everything, uncover significance in seemingly trivial matters, extract positives from negatives, and consistently live up to my life values. I believe this value system can guide me daily, enriching my life and improving my character.

To become my ideal self, I must avoid failing to achieve my goals, letting bad habits spiral out of control, and becoming dissatisfied, resentful, or bitter. I need to pursue various interests and invest significant effort. Filling my life with a variety of compelling content and activities, these pursuits will collectively create a more meaningful existence. The more experiences I have, the better I will understand my own life.

Living a distinctive and enriching life would help me avoid envy of others. I should focus less on physical possessions and more on psychological growth. I should never be content with my current state of mind but continually nourish my creativity and strive to become stronger and better.

In my career, I seek meaning and purpose. I aim to infuse my daily tasks with energy and connect them to the greater good. When I fail to make this connection, I become burned out and lose motivation.

Employees often distrust motivational speeches from bosses, suspecting that the main goal is to extract more work from them. However, a wise leader can turn a challenging situation into an extraordinary opportunity. As the saying goes, "Money follows management," and the inverse is also true: poor management leads to financial waste. A senior leadership team that makes poor judgments demoralizes employees and makes work feel pointless. In such a toxic environment, I must be aware that people may resort to deceitful and dishonest behavior, which I should avoid in the future.

Working solely for money can reduce my ability to experience emotions like joy and curiosity that come from pursuing meaningful goals. With sufficient passive income, I would have the financial freedom to explore and experiment. This decentralized approach allows for greater creativity and makes small successful trials even more rewarding.

To manage my productive anxiety, I need to engage in mental rehearsals. While some people may react negatively to my actions and words, I must remain passionate even if undervalued. I should strive to understand people's needs and interests, hear the assurance in my own voice, and speak with ease. In tense situations, I will employ sarcasm or withdrawal to avoid inadequate responses. As a leader, my aim is to inject energy into the workplace and make a positive impact on both relationships and the organization as a whole.

Virtual experiences can never replace real ones. I can't fully assess my enthusiasm for or competence in any endeavor without actually engaging in it. In simple terms, fear revolves around the possibility of danger. To conquer fear, I need to understand thoroughly the opportunity, odds, risks, and benefits.

Engaging in real experiences allows me to envision the future, predict my place in it, and plan accordingly. Volunteering provides a chance to apply my skills. I cannot afford to be passive and silent as time passes by.

I am acutely aware that I will die one day. While I don't know where I came from before birth or where I'll go after death, I do know that the present moment is unique and should not be wasted.

If I don't use my curiosity to try new things and discover new ideas and solutions, it would be a waste. I aim to inspire others with my vision and remain open to better solutions while avoiding idealism and perfectionism. For me, "good enough" is not acceptable.

My passion lies in creativity and innovation. I wish to collaborate with individuals who appreciate the application of creative and strategic thinking to solve problems. I can see the big picture, structure a problem, inspire strategic leadership with curiosity and ingenuity, and be well-suited for my ideal future.

A future to avoid would be one that stifles my principles and prevents me from becoming my best self. Should I find myself in a life filled with cynicism and resentment, I would know I have failed to live up to my potential.

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避免的未來

一個沒有意義的生活描繪了一個不利的未來的生動圖象。人們努力工作以實現他們的目標，追求他們的理想。科學的目的是揭示真理，而藝術的目標是顯示美。善良和愛的行為確立了道德，政治行動的價值在於實現社會公平。人類對食物、愛情、榮譽和權力的慾望都會在自我實現中達到高潮。根據馬斯洛的需求層次理論，這些價值推動我們在生活中達到自我實現的最高水平。

我的價值觀塑造了我的日常行為。我努力在所有事物中找到價值，從看似微不足道的事物中挖掘意義，從負面中提取積極，並持續地活出我的生命價值。我相信這種價值體系可以指導我的日常生活，豐富我的生活，提高我的性格。

要成為我理想的自我，我必須避免實現不了我的目標，讓壞習慣失控，變得不滿、憤怒或苦澀。我需要追求各種興趣，投入大量的努力。用各種引人入勝的內容和活動充實我的生活，這些追求將共同創造出更有意義的生活。我擁有的經驗越多，我就越能理解自己的生活。

過一種與眾不同、充實的生活將幫助我避免嫉妒他人。我應該少關注物質，更關注心靈成長。我永遠不應該對我的現狀感到滿足，而應該不斷地滋養我的創造力並努力變得更強大和更好。

在我的職業中，我追求意義和目的。我旨在將能量注入我的日常任務，並將它們與更大的利益相連接。當我無法建立這種聯繫時，我就會感到疲倦並丧失動力。

員工經常不信任來自老板的激勵性演講，懷疑其主要目的是讓他們多做工作。然而，一位聰明的領導者可以將一個困難的情況轉變為一個非凡的機會。俗話說，“錢跟著管理走，”反之亦然，管理不善會導致財務浪費。一個做出錯誤判斷的高級領導團隊會使員工情緒低落，讓工作變得毫無意義。在這種有毒的環境中，我必須意識到人們可能會訴諸欺詐和不誠實的行為，這是我將在未來避免的。

僅僅為了金錢工作會削弱我的感受到快樂和好奇心的能力，這些感情來自於追求有意義的目標。有了充足的被動收入，我就有了經濟自由去探索和嘗試。這種分散的方法允許更大的創造力，並使小的成功試驗更具有回報。

為了管理我的生產性焦慮，我需要進行精神排練。雖然有些人可能會對我的行為和話語產生負面反應，但即使在被低估的情況下，我也必須保持熱情。我應該努力理解人們的需求和興趣，聽到我自己聲音中的確定性，並且能夠輕鬆地說話。在緊張的情況下，我會使用諷刺或撤退來避免做出不適當的反應。作為一名領導者，我的目標是為工作場所注入能量，對人際關係和整個組織產生積極的影響。

虛擬經驗永遠無法代替真實的經驗。我不能在不實際參與的情況下全面評估我對任何事業的熱情或能力。簡而言之，恐懼圍繞著危險的可能性。要克服恐懼，我需要對機會、機率、風險和收益有深入的了解。

參與真實的經驗允許我想象未來，預測我的位置，並相應地做出計劃。志願者提供了一個應用我的技能的機會。我不能輕易地讓時間流逝，消極無言。

我清楚地知道我有一天會死。雖然我不知道我出生前來自何方，或者死後會去何方，但我知道，這個當下是獨一無二的，不應該被浪費。

如果我不用我的好奇心去嘗試新的事物，發現新的想法和解決方案，那就太浪費了。我希望以我的視野激勵他人，並始終對更好的解決方案保持開放，同時避免理想主義和完美主義。對我來說，"夠好"是不可接受的。

我的熱情在於創造力和創新。我希望與那些欣賞創造性和策略性思維解決問題的人合作。我可以看到全局，結構化問題，激發策略領導的好奇心和獨創性，並能夠適應我理想的未來。

我希望避免的未來是那種壓抑我的原則，阻礙我成為最好的自己的未來。如果我發現自己的生活充滿了冷嘲和怨恨，那就表示我沒有活出我的潛力。