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2021

Always Learning New Things

During my university enrollment, I faced the dilemma of choosing between academic and practical studies. As a teenager, I believed that a university should serve as an educational institution rather than a vocational training center. This somewhat idealistic viewpoint led me to avoid practical majors like accounting.

However, while I was interested in subjects like philosophy and history, I concluded that self-study during my free time would be more cost-effective than earning a degree in those areas. Consequently, I chose chemistry as my major, believing that the hands-on lab experiences justified the tuition costs.

As I matured, my career took an unexpected turn. Though my first job in a kitchen utensil testing laboratory was related to my studies, I found it uninspiring and limited in terms of career growth. Eventually, I pivoted to a career in information technology, teaching myself programming skills to survive in this challenging new field. I've learned a lot, from basic data structures to complex cloud architectures, but I've also come to appreciate how much I still have to learn.

Imposter syndrome is common in the tech industry, and I'm no exception. Working as a consultant requires rapidly acquiring new skills and appearing expert, even when I don't feel like one. I've had to adapt quickly to keep up with the rapidly evolving tech landscape.

Looking back, I realize that my academic focus didn't prepare me well for lifelong learning. Instead of merely transmitting knowledge, schools should teach students how to learn. This skill would not only have made my academic journey easier but would also have equipped me for self-directed learning post-graduation.

Interestingly, I've found that my theoretical knowledge, such as understanding second-order differential equations, hasn't been particularly useful in my day-to-day work. What provides a competitive edge today is quality thinking—new ideas, problem-solving techniques, and insights that tie everything together. To excel, I need to diversify my learning focus from purely academic to skill-based, following the example of the greatest minds in the field.

One of the best things I can do for my cognitive health is to continue learning. By embracing ongoing education, I can continue to develop my cognitive capabilities, even as I age. Setting challenges in my learning journey stimulates my brain, fostering flexibility and adaptability.

Exercise also enhances cognitive function, particularly in areas related to memory and learning. Hence, incorporating physical activity into my routine is beneficial for my brain's overall health.

To maximize the benefits of continuous learning, it's crucial to cultivate a culture that permits failure as a learning opportunity. Being curious should be encouraged, not frowned upon. After all, humans are social creatures who learn most effectively from and with others.

Additionally, practice is essential to perfecting any skill, including the ability to learn. Continual learning improves not just domain-specific knowledge but also enhances my overall ability to acquire new skills. Learning how to learn is, in itself, an invaluable skill.

Remaining in my comfort zone may offer temporary security, but it won't prepare me for the uncertainties of the future. Embracing learning agility allows me to adapt to new circumstances and let go of outdated ideas or techniques. Being open to new experiences and systematically reflecting on them is the way forward.

In conclusion, developing a learning culture involves adapting to change. In today's fast-paced world, recognizing that change is inevitable and advantageous is crucial for long-term success. We should see change not as a threat, but as a continuous opportunity for growth.

總是學習新事物

在我的大學入學期間,我面臨著選擇學術和實際學習之間的兩難。作為一個青少年,我認為大學應該是一個教育機構,而不是職業培訓中心。這種相對理想主義的觀點使我避開了像會計這樣的實用主修。

然而,雖然我對哲學和歷史等科目感興趣,但我認為在空閒時間自學會比獲得這些領域的學位更具成本效益。因此,我選擇了化學作為我的主修,認為實驗室的實手操作經驗可以證明學費的合理性。

隨著我成熟,我的職業生涯出現了意想不到的轉折。儘管我的第一份工作是在一個廚具測試實驗室,與我的學術研究相關,但我發現它缺乏靈感並限制了我的職業發展。最終,我轉向了信息技術行業,教自己編程技能以在這個充滿挑戰的新領域中生存。我學到了很多東西,從基本的數據結構到複雜的雲架構,但我也意識到我還有多少需要學習。

冒牌者綜合症在科技行業很常見,我也不例外。作為顧問,需要快速習得新技能並顯示出專業的態度,即使我並不覺得自己是一個專家。我不得不迅速適應以跟上快速變化的技術景觀。

回顧過去,我意識到我的學術專注並未讓我為終身學習做好準備。學校應該教學生如何學習,而不僅僅是傳遞知識。這種技能不僅會使我的學術旅程變得更容易,也會讓我在畢業後的自主學習中更有裝備。

有趣的是,我發現我的理論知識,如理解二階微分方程,並未在我的日常工作中發揮特別的作用。今天提供競爭優勢的是質量的思考-新的想法,解決問題的技巧,以及將所有東西聯繫在一起的洞察。為了獲得出色的表現,我需要將我的學習重點從純粹的學術轉向基於技能的,並以領域中最偉大的思想家為例。

對於我的認知健康來說,最好的事情之一就是繼續學習。通過擁抱持續的教育,我可以繼續發展我的認知能力,即使我年齡增長。在學習旅程中設置挑戰可以刺激我的大腦,培養靈活性和適應性。

運動也可以提高認知功能,特別是與記憶和學習相關的領域。因此,將體育活動納入我的日常生活對我的大腦的整體健康有益。

要最大化持續學習的好處,就必須培養一種允許失敗作為學習機會的文化。應該鼓勵保持好奇,而不是反對。畢竟,人們是社會性動物,最有效的學習方式是從他人那裡學習。

此外,練習對於完善任何技能,包括學習的能力,都是必不可少的。持續的學習不僅可以提高特定領域的知識,還可以提高我習得新技能的能力。學習如何學習本身就是一種無價的技能。

留在我的舒適區可能會提供暫時的安全感,但它並不能讓我為未來的不確定性做好準備。擁抱學習靈活性可以讓我適應新的情況,並放棄過時的觀念或技術。對新體驗保持開放態度,並系統性地反思它們,是前進的道路。

總之,發展學習文化包括適應變化。在當今快節奏的世界中,認識到變化是不可避免且有利的是長期成功的關鍵。我們應該看到變化不是威脅,而是持續成長的機會。

On Self-Actualization

Self-actualization is crucial because it enhances our well-being and makes our lives meaningful. We possess immense untapped potential, and I am thrilled to see what we can accomplish.

I would feel humiliated if I did not grow, as stagnation would signify a wasted opportunity to explore life's offerings, not just for me but for others as well. Self-actualization benefits us individually, but its implications are broader. It requires invoking the best in others, as well as in myself. A purely personal goal that disregards societal circumstances and other people is inadequate.

My pursuit of self-actualization is fueled by my fear of death. Without realizing my full potential, I would be unhappy. I believe we all have incredible creative, humanitarian, and spiritual capabilities. Sometimes we feel alienated because we focus too narrowly on ourselves.

Pursuing our greatest potential, even in the face of adversity, is a rewarding journey. This quest is driven by a spirit of exploration, a fundamental biological impulse that serves as the foundation for all growth. Exploration involves seeking out and making sense of new, challenging, and unpredictable situations, propelled by curiosity, discovery, and openness.

Creating new growth opportunities is energizing. Our fundamental urge for exploration can serve as the bedrock upon which we build other objectives, progressing to higher levels and making meaningful contributions to the world. The desire for continual learning is central to self-actualization and extends beyond personal growth. Realizing our full potential enables us to attain greater internal unity and a stronger connection with humanity.

Achieving self-actualization will change our perception of loneliness. Despite our inherent desire for deep and complete connections with others, we must also accept the existential reality of our inherent isolation. By contributing to something greater than ourselves, we foster a sense of community.

Because of this newfound meaning, other aspects of our personal lives will also transform. We're caught between an indifferent cosmos devoid of intrinsic meaning and our innate desire to find purpose during our limited time on Earth. Overcoming these obstacles will make life feel more meaningful.

Though I may be alone in my boat, the sight of other boats and distant lighthouses is comforting. Such a perspective affects how others see me, as it demonstrates my willingness to navigate the vast, perilous ocean of life. It's reassuring to know that we're all in this together, facing similar existential challenges.

Self-actualization influences how we view life, making us realize that a good life is not a destination but a journey. The process won't always bring happiness; it may even lead to suffering and heartbreak. But as we unlock more of our potential and plunge into life's stream, we must continually step out of our comfort zones to become the best versions of ourselves. In doing so, we prove to the universe that we existed and made a positive impact on others.

One practical approach to self-actualization is experimentation. Start by listing life's challenges and your assumptions about them. Testing these hypotheses will help you overcome life's obstacles, allowing you to learn from mistakes and continue improving.

In complex organizations, collaboration is key. Individual efforts accomplish little; everything is highly interconnected. Self-reflection and an openness to change enhance our effectiveness. Productivity is not magic; it's a skill set that can be learned and applied.

To realize collective potential, we need bold, heartfelt leadership across all sectors—from corporations to governments, activist groups, schools, and faith communities. Leading from a place of self-awareness rather than fear is essential.

Maintaining a writing habit helps me organize my thoughts and actions, particularly because I enjoy reading self-help books. Writing fosters continuous improvement and personal growth, serving as a proactive method for exploring all avenues to realize one's full potential.

Insecurity can hinder self-actualization. People may act out, like cornered animals, when they experience real or anticipated pain. However, humans are inherently kind when their basic needs for love and security are met. Any behavior that deviates from this kindness is an overcompensatory attempt to meet these basic needs.

Psychological anxieties often signal underlying insecurities that impede our ability to realize our full potential. In an increasingly unpredictable world, even basic needs like housing can become a crisis. A foundational need for safety and stability is essential for meeting all other needs, including self-actualization.

We will never have complete control over our environment, making stress and uncertainty inevitable barriers to self-actualization. The only true security lies in learning how to cope with insecurity.

To track self-actualization progress, consider real-world possibilities. Aiming for a 10% improvement means doing what everyone else is doing; to truly excel, aim for a 1000% improvement. This requires rethinking challenges, exploring what's technically possible, and enjoying the process.

Self-actualization isn't just about discovering innate abilities; it's about evolving into the person who can serve and lead effectively. Instead of asking who I am and what I'm good at, I ask what's needed of me and how I can grow into that role or lead others to do so.

Achieving self-actualization involves completing high-impact tasks that align with your core interests, rather than merely completing low-value work. Understanding that what we value may differ from what others value is important. In other words, our path to happiness is unique.

Engaging in a flurry of unrelated activities rarely contributes to self-actualization. Discovering your potential and life's purpose is akin to finding true love; it takes time and effort. Like building a relationship, self-actualization requires consistent effort to identify what genuinely resonates with us. It's the process that brings our inner selves to life and helps us evolve into more complete individuals.

關於自我實現

自我實現的重要性,因其能提升我們的福祉並賦予我們的生活意義。我們擁有巨大的未發掘潛力,我對我們能完成的事情感到興奮。

如果我不成長,我會覺得羞辱,因為停滯不前意味著浪費了探索生活的機會,這不僅對我來說,也對其他人來說如此。自我實現對我們個人有益,但其影響更廣泛。這需要激發他人和我自身的最佳狀態。純粹的個人目標忽視了社會環境和其他人,是不夠的。

我對自我實現的追求是由對死亡的恐懼驅動的。如果我無法實現我的全面潛力,我會感到不快樂。我相信我們都有令人難以置信的創造性、人道主義和精神能力。有时因為我們過於關注自己,所以感到疏遠。

儘管面對逆境,追求最大的潛力是一個有益的旅程。這次尋求是由探索的精神驅動,這是所有成長的基礎生物衝動。探索涉及尋找和理解新的、具有挑戰性的和不可預測的情況,這是由好奇心、發現和開放性推動的。

創建新的成長機會是充滿活力的。我們對探索的基本衝動可以作為我們建立其他目標的基石,進步到更高的水平,並對世界作出有意義的貢獻。對持續學習的渴望是自我實現的核心,並超越個人成長。實現全面的潛力使我們能夠獲得更強的內在統一性和與人類的更強聯繫。

實現自我實現將改變我們對孤獨的感知。儘管我們對與他人深刻且完整的聯繫有著天生的渴望,但我們也必須接受我們與生俱來的孤獨的存在型現實。通過對大於我們自身的東西做出貢獻,我們培養了社區的感覺。

由於這種新的意義,我們個人生活的其他方面也將發生變化。我們被困在無情的宇宙中,它缺乏內在的意義,同時我們存在的當時又渴望尋找目的。克服這些障礙將使生活變得更有意義。

雖然我可能在我的船上獨自一人,但遠處其他船和燈塔的景色讓人感到安慰。這種觀點影響了其他人如何看待我,因為它顯示了我願意航行在生活的巨大、險惡的海洋中。給人安心的是知道我們都在一起,面對著相似的存在性挑戰。

自我實現影響我們如何看待生活,使我們意識到一個美好的生活不是一個目的地,而是一個旅程。這個過程不會總是帶來快樂,甚至可能導致痛苦和心碎。但是,隨著我們解開更多的潛力並投入生活的洪流,我們必須不斷地走出舒適區,成為自己的最佳版本。這樣做,我們向宇宙證明我們存在並對他人產生了積極的影響。

實現自我實現的一種實用方法是實驗。開始列出生活的挑戰和你對它們的假設。測試這些假設將幫助你克服生活的障礙,讓你能從錯誤中學習並繼續改進。

在複雜的組織中,協作是關鍵。個人的努力成果甚少;一切都高度互相連接。自我反思和對變革的開放性提高了我們的有效性。生產力不是魔法,而是一種可以學習和應用的技能。

為了實現集體的潛力,我們需要所有部門的大膽、真誠的領導,從公司到政府,激進組織,學校和宗教社區。從自我意識而非恐懼出發來領導是必要的。

保持寫作的習慣幫助我組織我的想法和行動,特別是因為我喜歡閱讀自助書籍。寫作促進了持續改進和個人成長,它是一種積極探索實現自我全部潛力所有方式的方法。

不安全感會阻礙自我實現。人們可能會像被困住的動物那樣為了他們經歷的真實或預期的痛苦而行動。然而,當人類的基本愛和安全需要得到滿足時,他們本性上是善良的。任何偏離這種善良的行為都是為了滿足這些基本需求的過度補償嘗試。

心理焦慮經常表明存在阻礙我們實現全面潛力的基礎不安全感。在一個日益變得不可預測的世界中,即使像住房這樣的基本需求也可能成為危機。對安全和穩定的基礎需求對於滿足所有其他需求,包括自我實現,都是必不可少的。

我們永遠無法對自己的環境擁有完全的控制,這使得壓力和不確定性成為實現自我實現的必然障礙。唯一真正的安全就是學會如何應對不安全感。

要跟踪自我實現的進度,請考慮實際情況。瞄準10%的改善意味著做大家都在做的事情;要真正出色,瞄準1000%的改善。這需要重新思考挑戰,探索技術上可能的事情,並享受過程。

自我實現不僅是關於發現與生俱來的能力,還是關於變成能夠有效地服務和領導的人。我不再問我是誰和我擅長什麼,而是問需要我做什麼,以及我如何成長到那個角色或帶領其他人去做。

達到自我實現涉及完成與你的核心興趣相符的高影響力任務,而不僅僅是完成低價值工作。理解我們的價值觀可能與其他人的價值觀不同是重要的。換句話說,我們的幸福之路是獨特的。

參與一連串無關的活動很少能對自我實現有所貢獻。發掘你的潛力和生活的目的就像找到真愛一樣,需要時間和努力。像建立一段關係一樣,自我實現需要做出持續的努力來識別什麼是真正與我們產生共鳴的事物。這是一個將我們的內心自我帶到生活中並幫助我們成為更完整個體的過程。

On Building and Contributing to the Community

Building and contributing to the community are crucial for a meaningful life. While humans may not be the fastest or strongest animals, we dominate the Earth thanks to our social abilities. Our collective endeavors often yield better outcomes than individual efforts.

Everything I have today is a product of others' contributions. For instance, the MacBook Pro before me is a marvel of generations of expertise in electricity, semiconductors, and programming. I owe my gratitude to countless individuals for their sweat and effort.

As I've matured, society has enriched me in many ways, making it my duty to give back whenever possible. I have enjoyed the fruits of community contributions in the form of clean water, quality food, and education, among other things.

Feeling enriched, I'm driven to contribute to my community. Doing so enhances my sense of purpose and strengthens social bonds.

Volunteering has offered me numerous ways to assist others. In my younger days, I joined the student union and served as a committee member, leveraging my skills for communal benefit. Interaction enriches me, opening doors to understand others' needs better. Inspirational figures like the ancient Chinese poet Du Fu motivate me to prioritize helping people, even at personal risk.

Being a community contributor transforms how I perceive myself. It demonstrates my capability for social good and makes me realize that my well-being is closely tied to the community's overall health. Moreover, it shifts my focus from fearing judgments about my abilities to considering how my actions can better the community.

This perspective adjustment doesn't only enrich my personal life; it also extends to my professional environment. In situations where office politics and resource competition may stymie contributions, I've found knowledge-sharing to be a powerful tool for good.

I'm considering tracking our collective progress by counting compliments received. Community building is a long but rewarding process. A focus on equity and fairness, rather than mere financial considerations, is key to fostering a cooperative society.

The core of my work ethic involves long hours, modest living, and maximum contribution. Adopting realistic expectations for everyone's input is crucial. Demanding equal contributions from all may lead to disappointment and reduced participation from those who could offer more. By setting the right expectations, I can make more impactful contributions.

In an era of abundant choices, we bear the responsibility to act wisely. To contribute effectively, I need a comprehensive understanding of my strengths, weaknesses, values, and the areas where I can offer the most. Operating from my strengths will enable me to reach my goals more effectively. Constant feedback and daily action tracking will help me focus on this priority and ensure I don't become complacent.

關於建立與貢獻社區

建立和貢獻社區對於有意義的生活至關重要。雖然人類可能並非最快或最強的動物,但我們由於社會能力而主導世界。我們的集體努力往往比個體努力產生更好的結果。

我今天所有的一切都是別人貢獻的產物。例如,我眼前的MacBook Pro是數代人在電力,半導體和編程方面專業知識的驚人成果。我要對無數為此付出汗水和努力的人表示感謝。

隨著我成熟,社會以許多方式充實了我,使我有責任在可能的情況下回饋。我享受到社區貢獻的果實,形式包括乾淨的水,優質的食物和教育等。

感到豐富,我有動力為我的社區做出貢獻。這樣做可以增強我對目的的感覺並加強社會聯繫。

義工工作為我提供了許多幫助他人的方式。在我較年輕的時候,我加入了學生會,並擔任委員會成員,利用我的技能為社區做出貢獻。互動豐富了我,讓我更好地了解別人的需要。像古代中國詩人杜甫這樣的鼓舞人心的人物激勵我優先幫助他人,即使冒著個人風險。

成為社區貢獻者改變了我對自己的認識。它證明了我具有社會貢獻的能力,並使我意識到我的幸福與社區整體的健康息息相關。此外,它將我焦點從擔心關於我的能力的評價轉移到如何通過行動使社區變得更好。

這種觀點的調整不僅豐富了我的個人生活; 它也擴展到我的專業環境。在辦公室政治和資源競爭可能阻撓貢獻的情況下,我發現分享知識是一種強大的做好事的工具。

我正在考慮通過計數收到的讚揚來追蹤我們的集體進步。社區建設是一個漫長但有益的過程。關注公平和公正,而不僅僅是金錢的考慮,是營造一個合作社會的關鍵。

我的工作核心含括長時間工作,樸素生活和最大的貢獻。為每個人的投入設置實際的期望至關重要。要求所有人平等貢獻可能會導致失望,並降低那些可以提供更多的人的參與。通過設置正確的期望,我可以做出更有影響力的貢獻。

在選擇豐富的時代,我們有責任明智行事。要有效地貢獻,我需要全面瞭解我的優點,缺點,價值和我最能提供的領域。從我的優勢出發,我能更有效地實現我的目標。持續的反饋和每日行動跟蹤將幫助我專注於這一優先事項,並確保我不會自滿。

On Positive Mindset

Because my thoughts shape my destiny, maintaining a positive mindset is crucial. A limited perspective can narrow our horizons. I can strive to become an excellent public speaker and author, and even pass exams to become a qualified professional. The only obstacle to reaching my goals is myself.

If I adopt a growth mindset, I can achieve anything. I believe in myself and know that hard work will help me reach my goals. However, a fixed mindset can hinder progress and make goals seem unattainable. In retrospect, the real embarrassment is not in failing to achieve our objectives, but in never attempting to reach them in the first place.

I aim for personal success, not only for my benefit but also to serve as an example to others. My failures and the lessons I learn can help future generations avoid similar mistakes. Some challenges seem unique to me, but countless others have faced similar obstacles and never documented their experiences, missing the chance to help others learn from their mistakes.

I want to preserve my thoughts as they are unique to this moment. My words have the potential to change my life and inspire others to adopt a more optimistic outlook. A positive mindset is fundamental to any endeavor; otherwise, obstacles will seem insurmountable.

Having a positive mindset means interpreting the world optimistically. While many viewpoints exist, we can either focus on negative interpretations or search for positive aspects. It’s not about ignoring the world’s problems but about finding opportunities within them.

The way we perceive our reality can greatly influence our happiness and success. Every neutral event offers an opportunity for growth and learning. Embracing these opportunities not only enriches our lives but also positively impacts those around us.

Cultivating a positive outlook can make you more approachable and inspire others. By recognizing the good in others, we can build stronger communities and encourage positive behavior.

People generally fall into two categories: those who seek out positivity and those who don't. Failing to look for the good in the world can limit your opportunities and impact your social interactions negatively. Sharing positivity can uplift someone struggling with a negative self-image.

Celebrating incremental progress towards a more optimistic mindset can reinforce positive thinking. Our brain is capable of forming habits, and frequent celebrations can help establish a pattern of positive thought. This, in turn, helps us treat ourselves with kindness and respect.

At times, it may be difficult to steer our thoughts away from negativity. However, daily positive thinking, exercise, and focused efforts can significantly improve our lives. Whether at work or in our personal lives, constant improvement is the key to success.

The journey towards a positive mindset is a choice. Incremental improvement can lead to significant growth over time. Constructive feedback and a strong belief in personal development can make you unstoppable.

Negative thinking not only distracts us from our goals but also consumes valuable time. Replacing such thoughts with constructive activities can bring peace and focus. Although negative thoughts can serve as alerts, they become unproductive if they don't inspire action.

Breaking old habits and establishing new, positive ones is an ongoing process. Setting achievable goals can provide a roadmap for success, boosting self-confidence and mental well-being.

Sticking to a negative mindset has several drawbacks, affecting both personal and professional life. Bad moods influence our decision-making, hindering long-term success. While pain can be an effective teacher, technology can be a valuable tool, provided we use it wisely.

Motivation goes beyond just feeling good. Connecting positivity to our core values and beliefs compels us to overcome challenges and achieve our goals.

In conclusion, positivity may not solve all problems, but it equips us to face life's challenges effectively. Transitioning from a fixed to a growth mindset, developed through experiences and challenges, helps create a fulfilling life.

關於積極心態

由於我的想法塑造了我的命運,保持積極的心態至關重要。狹窄的觀點可能會限制我們的視野。我可以努力成為一個出色的公眾演講者和作者,甚至通過考試成為合格的專業人士。達到我的目標的唯一障礙就是我自己。

如果我採取成長心態,我可以實現任何事情。我相信自己,並知道努力工作將幫助我實現我的目標。然而,固定的心態可能會妨礙進步,使目標看似無法達成。回顧過去,真正的尷尬不是未能達到我們的目標,而是從未嘗試去實現它們。

我追求個人成功,不僅為了我自己的利益,也為了給其他人做出示例。我的失敗和我學到的教訓可以幫助未來的世代避免犯相同的錯誤。有些挑戰似乎是我個人獨有的,但無數的人都曾面對過類似的障礙,並且從未記錄他們的經歷,因而錯過了幫助他人從他們的錯誤中學習的機會。

我想保留我的想法,因為它們是真正屬於這個時刻的。我的話語具有改變我的生活並激勵他人採取更樂觀態度的潛力。積極的心態對於任何事業都是基礎;否則,障礙將看似無法克服。

擁有積極的心態意味著樂觀地解釋世界。雖然有許多觀點存在,我們可以專注於消極的解讀,或者尋找積極的方面。這並不是要忽視世界的問題,而是要在其中找到機會。

我們如何感知我們的現實可以大大影響我們的幸福和成功。每一個中立的事件都提供了成長和學習的機會。擁抱這些機會不僅可以豐富我們的生活,也能對我們周圍的人產生積極的影響。

培養積極的觀點可以使你變得更加平易近人,並激勵他人。通過看到他人的優點,我們可以建立更強大的社區並鼓勵積極的行為。

人們通常可以分為兩類:那些尋求積極的人和那些不這樣做的人。不去尋找世界上的好事會限制你的機會,並對你的社交互動產生負面影響。分享積極的能量可以提振一個對自我形象感到消沉的人。

慶祝更樂觀心態的逐步進步可以加強積極的思考。我們的大腦有形成習慣的能力,並且經常的慶祝可以幫助建立積極思考的模式。這反過來又可以幫助我們善待自己並尊重自己。

有時,讓我們的思維遠離消極可能會很困難。然而,每日積極思考、運動和專注的努力可以大大改善我們的生活。無論在工作還是在個人生活中,持續改進都是成功的關鍵。

走向積極心態的旅程是一種選擇。隨著時間的推移,逐步的改進可以帶來顯著的成長。建設性的反饋和對個人發展的堅定信念可以使你無堅不摧。

消極思考不僅會使我們分心,還會消耗寶貴的時間。用有建設性的活動來代替這些想法可以帶來和平和專注。雖然消極的想法可以作為警告,但如果它們無法激發行動,它們就會變得毫無成效。

打破舊的習慣並建立新的、積極的習慣是一個持續的過程。設定可達成的目標可以提供成功的路線圖,促進自信心和心理健康。

堅持消極心態有許多缺點,影響個人和專業生活。壞心情影響我們的決策,阻礙長期的成功。儘管痛苦可以是有效的教師,但如果我們能夠明智地利用它,技術可以是寶貴的工具。

動機不僅僅是感覺良好。將積極性連接到我們的核心價值觀和信念將驅使我們克服挑戰並實現我們的目標。

總的來說,積極可能並不能解決所有的問題,但可以讓我們有能力有效地應對生活的挑戰。從固定的心態轉變為通過經驗和挑戰發展出來的成長心態,可以幫助創造一個充實的生活。

What Money Cannot Buy

"Money isn't everything, but everything needs money," my mother would often say when I was a child. How true is this adage? This principle served as the bedrock of my financial education, imparted to me by my mother. As a youngster, I didn't fully understand its depth, but as I grew older, the wisdom in her words became clear.

I graduated from university about a decade ago and landed my first job. Receiving my first paycheck was exhilarating, particularly because I had worked diligently to earn it. At that moment, I felt as though I had enough money, even if it wasn't a large sum. This was the first and last time I ever felt that way; my expenses soon escalated, and the feeling of financial sufficiency evaporated. I came to realize that receiving a paycheck was more gratifying than the daily grind of work.

Every job change brought a pay increase and naturally, I adjusted my lifestyle to match my growing income. I used to share a small, cramped room with my parents in Hong Kong. Eager for independence, I moved into a rented condo. This new lifestyle came at a cost, diminishing my ability to save money. Additionally, I splurged on a fine car—a blue Mini Cooper. Though small, it was mighty, and I loved it dearly. I cherished it as a companion in my life.

I met my partner approximately five years ago, and I was instantly smitten. She was not flawless, but she was stunning in my eyes. I couldn't stop thinking about her from the moment we met. I still remember the first time I drove to her house to pick her up. "Wow, your car is really lovely," she exclaimed. Those words made all my expenditures seem worth it.

As a reasonably successful software developer, I supported my parents with a monthly stipend and lived comfortably. However, having a girlfriend doubled my expenses. Fine dining and extravagant gifts, especially designer handbags, became the norm. These luxurious items ate into several months of my salary, confirming my mother's saying: "Money isn't everything, but everything needs money."

Two years into our relationship, talk of marriage began to surface. My girlfriend's expectations began to change; she became more focused and resolute. I didn't have significant savings, but she reassured me, saying, "It doesn't matter, we can start saving for our future today." Despite her gentle demeanor, she became increasingly controlling, pressuring me to save.

Faced with the high costs of car ownership, I had to make a choice: my car or my future wife. I chose the latter and sold my beloved car to save money. It was a heart-wrenching decision, but it revealed the extent of my love for her.

Now, without my car, I've been saving by cutting down on non-essential expenses. Sadly, this also meant discontinuing the monthly financial support to my parents, a decision that weighed heavily on my conscience. Once again, my mother's words echoed in my mind: "Money isn't everything, but it's necessary for everything." Money can buy a car, designer handbags, and even an engagement ring, but it cannot buy love.

錢不能買到的東西

"錢不是萬能的,但沒錢萬萬不能,"我母親在我小時候經常這麼說。這句格言有多麼正確呢?這個原則是我母親傳授給我的財務教育的基石。作為一個年輕人,我並未全然理解其深度,但隨著我年紀的增長,她話語中的智慧變得清晰。

大約十年前,我從大學畢業,並找到了我的第一份工作。收到我的第一份薪水絕對是令人興奮的,特別是因為我一直努力工作以賺取它。那一刻,我覺得我有足夠的錢,即使它不是一大筆錢。這是我有史以來唯一一次有這種感覺;我的花費很快就上升了,並且有足夠的財務感覺消失了。我意識到,收到薪水比每天的工作更令人滿足。

每次工作變動都會帶來薪資的提高,自然地,我根據我不斷增長的收入調整我的生活方式。我曾和我的父母在香港共享一個狹小的,擁擠的房間。渴望獨立,我搬進了租來的公寓。這種新的生活方式帶來了成本,削弱了我儲蓄金錢的能力。此外,我還揮霍了一輛好車 - 一輛藍色的Mini Cooper。雖然它小,但它強大,我非常喜歡。我視它為生活中的侶伴。

大約五年前,我遇到了我的伴侶,我立即被她迷住了。她並不完美,但在我眼中她非常迷人。從我們見面的那一刻起,我就無法停止想念她。我仍然記得第一次我開車去她家接她的時候。「哇,你的車真好看啊,」她驚嘆道。這句話使我所有的支出都變得值得。

作為一個相當成功的軟件開發人員,我每月為我的父母提供津貼,並且舒適地生活。然而,有女朋友讓我的開銷翻了一番。精緻的晚餐和奢華的禮物, 尤其是名牌手袋, 已經成了常態。這些奢侈品消耗了我幾個月的薪水,證實了我母親的話:「錢不是所有,但所有需要錢。」

在我們的關係進行了兩年後,結婚的話題開始浮出水面。我女朋友的期望開始變化;她變得更加專注和堅決。我沒有太多的儲蓄,但她安慰我說:「沒關係,我們今天可以開始為我們的未來存錢。」儘管她的態度溫和,但她越來越控制,給我施加了壓力去存錢。

面對車主的高昂成本,我必須做出選擇:我的車還是我的未來妻子。我選擇了後者,賣掉了我心愛的車子以節約錢。這是一個令人心碎的決定,但它揭示了我對她的愛情的深度。

現在,沒有了我的車,我通過削減非必需的開銷而節省了錢。可悲的是,這也意味著我不再每月給我父母提供財務支援,這個決定讓我良心十分不安。再次,我母親的話在我腦海中迴響:「錢不是萬能的,但是萬萬不能沒有它。」錢可以買車子,名牌手袋,甚至是訂婚戒指,但它不能買愛情。